
Guidance for planning a family garden
Think of your garden as an extension to your home, an outside space for all to enjoy. When planning a garden to suit the family what better way to start than to sit around a table and involve everyone? Ask your children what they enjoy most about being outside and what they would like for the garden. Compile a list of the all the ideas not forgetting your own requirements. Planning is key to create a garden that not only looks good but also is incredibly practical.
Getting started
Measure the garden and draw this out on some paper and include any parts of the garden that are to remain as is, such as shrub beds, existing paths or patios etc (you may find that whilst initially you wanted them to stay, as you start to sketch your design, it is best that they go or be re sited within the garden). Photocopy this so you have extra copies to work on as you may have two or three ideas. Sketch the areas onto the plan to include the important parts of your needs, you can then tweak these as you go. To make them more interesting such as instead of an oblong lawn with shrub beds around the edge you may wish to create a curved lawn with borders that breaks up the garden into sections.
Something for Everyone
You may have to minimise the list if there are too many ideas or elements that may exceed your budget, but again involve the family in these discussions as they will all feel a part of the project. Children love play areas of which there are many different choices such as swings, tree houses and climbing frames. Look around at what’s available, choose something well built so that it will withstand the constant demands of being well used.
The top needs for a family garden are usually a patio for dining, relaxing and socialising (and it’s a dry place for children to play on during winter), an area for play, beds to grow your own vegetables, an area for a shed for storage or play and an area for hanging out the washing.
Things to think about
Children
The demands of children change, as they grow older, so it’s worth thinking of the future and allowing the garden to change with the children as they grow.
A sandpit is a great idea for young children, but if you want a permanent sand pit, build it so that it can be changed into something else like a small vegetable bed, where the children can grow their own vegetables and flowers later on. Don’t forget a lid for the sandpit or next doors cat may like to enjoy it too!
A Wendy or tree house is a lovely idea, but as the children grow they may become less interested in this so perhaps choose something that is large enough to create a den or a place where when the teenagers can hang out and have their friends round or a place they can escape to and give you some quiet time too! And in the short term part of this can be used as storage for toys and bikes.
An area for hopscotch is good fun, but make it more permanent using some attractive stepping-stones and place them in an area that you could also use as path, so again as the children get bored, they don’t become unsightly or unused.
You may wish the children’s play area, whether it consists of lawn, paths, dens etc to be closer to the house so that you can keep an eye on them and their safety whilst playing outside.
If you are introducing play equipment, make sure the area has a soft landing around it and is not situated to close to walls, fences, trees or bushes. I recently saw a garden which had introduced a sunken trampoline, which is a great idea, as the child will not have a drop if they fall, but in this case 30cm from it was a paved patio which is not a particularly soft landing.
Grass is ideal and there are many other products on the market such as shredded rubber material and play bark. If you are introducing a surface like this think about edgings around this area so that the loose material stays contained and does not end up round the garden. Put some plant membrane down first as this will help reduce any weeds coming up from underneath.
Check for hazards in the garden. Make sure your boundaries are safe and the children are safely contained within the safety of your outside space. Ponds are not recommended when you have young children, so perhaps if you have an existing one, you need to explore covers available to make it safe, perhaps convert it into a sandpit (making sure that water is able to escape) or remove it completely.
Adults
When planning where your patio should be, think about the sunniest spot in the garden, especially if you want early evening BBQ’s etc so you can enjoy most of the sun. You may wish to have it not too far from the house so you don’t have far to go if you nip indoors. If the location is best suited further away to enjoy the sunshine, then think about creating a path so that you don’t walk dirt into the house. A path could consist of paving slabs or stepping-stones to create a practical walking area. If you are laying slabs or stepping stones within a lawn area, make sure these are flush with the lawn otherwise when cutting it the mower will not run smoothly over the slabs and you will end up spending time strimming around these.
If you are laying a new lawn from turf or seeding one, choose one which is hard wearing so it is up to lots of wear and tear.
When choosing plants for your garden, choose ones that can withstand being knocked slightly by a football etc. Our Garden Centre team can advice on non-poisonous plants, tough and easy to care for plants that will create year round interest in the garden. They can suggest ideas for introducing fragrant plants, bold colourful plants and plants which are enjoyable to touch so you can help cover all the senses and create interest for all the family.
Ideas for fun
Gardens grow children, and this is even more true when a child’s first experiences with gardening are successful and fun.
Stimulate children’s interest by getting them involved in growing vegetables and then helping to make something in the kitchen. Grow pumpkins ready for Halloween.
Grow plants that mature quickly such as sunflowers as this will help keep children’s attention.
Build a hedgehog house and encourage wildlife into the garden, children love bugs! Buy a birdhouse or bird stand and get the children to decorate it with non-toxic paints for a bit of fun.
Make a scarecrow to sit in the vegetable bed.
If your garden is large enough leave an area where the children can build their own den/tent from twigs, blankets and other items.